tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1016874959532936221.post6136951445913849153..comments2023-10-20T08:23:53.600-04:00Comments on This Hampton Life of Mine: To say, or not to say...Erickahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10970653433366173538noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1016874959532936221.post-42162893759285946242011-08-23T17:18:40.850-04:002011-08-23T17:18:40.850-04:00Oh my goodness...
I had read the "twat"...Oh my goodness...<br /><br />I had read the "twat" issue and I was appalled there. Now, I'm more appalled. I can't even believe that someone would say that. Even in my darkest days when I was so very very upset that I kept losing my pregnancies, I never begrudged any of the women in this community their own. I looked to them as success stories and hoped (desperately) that I may one day be in their position.<br /><br />I do believe in God and I don't believe that God's Plan is anything you have to worry about because it is His plan. You will do what you can to achieve your plan...and maybe it will work (I really hope it does) and maybe it won't, but it isn't up to anyone else to decipher it for you. Even if it was God's plan that you had only one child, it certainly wouldn't be because you are "too selfish" - the God I know doesn't punish in that way. He is perfect and would not be petty in those ways.<br /><br />Wow...sorry, that's my venting there. I'm terribly sorry someone said something so thoughtless and hurtful to you. I hope things do work out for you and that you do get to have the child you desire!<br /><br />ICLW 76Nikkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02968149687115931039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1016874959532936221.post-17580078755161194512011-08-23T11:41:35.572-04:002011-08-23T11:41:35.572-04:00You know, just because someone desperately wants w...You know, just because someone desperately wants what someone else has, that does NOT give them to be rude like these anonymous commenters have been. <br /><br />When my husband and I were going through secondary infertility, my sister-in-law actually said "I don't know why you are so desperate to have another child. After all, you already have two." I was so pissed.<br /><br />But, back to you, I hope you can reach your heart's desire and have a sibling for your daughter.<br /><br />ICLW #19Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10791317184998122691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1016874959532936221.post-44365919698010697902011-08-23T05:59:30.729-04:002011-08-23T05:59:30.729-04:00You know what - comments like what "anonymous...You know what - comments like what "anonymous" made really make my blood boil. This "God's Plan" is a load of crap - what about the thousands of children who are sexually abused everyday in the world by sick people - is that in God's Plan? What about the woman down the road who was raped and murdered - was that in God's plan or the millions starving around the world?? Or what about the poor people who perished in the Nazi concentration camps - God's Plan??? I don't think so. <br /><br />Also, if the anonymous reader suddenly has a heart attack in her home - she shouldn't bother calling an ambulance to save her because as she said it's God's Plan - she's not meant to live!!! See how ridiculous that sounds. In her world, all hospitals should be shut down, science should be stopped in its tracks...because what's the point???<br /><br />I'm not religious, but I have heard that God has given us free will - maybe that's why there is good and evil in the world and maybe that's why the human brain has been allowed the develop to understand science, to invent ways to help us live longer, have a healthier life, save babies that might have died at birth 50 years ago, help create life. <br /><br />Anyone who has gone through infertility knows that science can only take us half way - nature does the rest. Example: doctors can only "Transfer" embryos, they can no make them implant.<br /><br />So to the person who left the anonymous comment: Re-evaluate your beliefs...they don't make ANY sense.Mrs BabyDreamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15432050866625310297noreply@blogger.com