One of my bloggie friends, Bobbi shared a video that her husband made about infertility for her.
They suffered from secondary infertility and she is now pregnant with their son, Tristan, after 2.5 years of trying and finally getting success with an FET transfer (after a failed IVF). Their daughter, Ella, helps out with the video in the end and it is a beautiful. I have so many of the same thoughts as what is seen in this video, (though we still have no end in sight...no pregnancy to celebrate with) and it is true of infertility regardless of whether it is primary or secondary.
Anyhow, here is the video: